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Taylor posted a condolence
Monday, December 31, 2018
Condolences to the Sefcik family. Reading the comments our husband and father, and friend was as Ecclesiastes 7:1 describe Mr.Matthew.made a good name for himself. May the many fond memories of him be Cherish they're memories that know one can take away. Psalms 34:18
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Joe Lombardi posted a condolence
Saturday, December 29, 2018
I was overwhelmed with emotion last night and could's say what I wanted to say. Here it goes. Matty was one of the finest students I have ever taught at Arlington. He was always the gentleman, the level headed kid in the class, the achiever, the kind of son that any parent would be proud of. He had a sense of humor along with a sharp mind that made teaching him a joy.
I have nothing but the fondest memories of him which I shall treasure for as long as I live.
My sincere condolences to his family.
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Ed Placke posted a condolence
Saturday, December 29, 2018
I will always cherish my talks with Matt during Siena women matches. His knowledge of his beloved game was second to none. My prayers are with the family.
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Bob Craig posted a condolence
Saturday, December 29, 2018
Sorry for your loss, I have fond memories of school days with Matty.
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Stacy (Collins) Whittaker posted a condolence
Friday, December 28, 2018
Through junior high and high school, Matty was a kind and caring friend. I will never forget his antics on our trip to Russia. Then, after college he and Donna lived in the apartment above mine for a short time.
My sincerest condolences go out to Donna and the rest of his family. I hope you will all find comfort in each other and in the memories of such a loving husband, father and friend.
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Matthew & Melissa Simpson posted a condolence
Friday, December 28, 2018
To the Sefcik family,
We are sorry for your loss. We were deeply saddened by the news of Matthew's passing. Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
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Stephen Bosco donated to DUTCHESS COUNTY SPCA INC
Friday, December 28, 2018
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Steven and Kathie Burnham posted a condolence
Friday, December 28, 2018
Dear Donna and family:
Our greatest sympathy and condolences go out to you at this time of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your grief.
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Meg Sharoh posted a condolence
Friday, December 28, 2018
I only met Matty once at the house with Patty my best friend a time before the baby shower because she was going to take care of the cat and Matty was so hospitable I could tell the way you described him in the obituary he was every bit of that I’m so so very sorry for your loss
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Cheryl Ann Kingston posted a condolence
Friday, December 28, 2018
Donna and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Matty was a neighbor when we were growing up and I remember him well. May he rest peacefully in the Hands of God.
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Mary Chenevert posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Dear Donna and Family,
We are so very sorry for the sudden loss of Matt! It is such a shock and seems so unfair! You are all in our prayers at this very difficult time! Please know that we are sending our love to you all. He was such a Family man, and I know how tragic this is for all of you. There are so many people who cared about him and they will try to lift you up!
Love and Sympathy,
Mary and Peter Chenevert
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Charles Baker purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Steve Ellicott posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
I am so so sad to hear this news .... and I too feel numb.
Matty had to be one of The nicest guys that we went to school with ... matched by his sweetheart Donna.
My warmest thoughts and prayers to Donna and your entire extended family .
I would come to Matty’s services except that I am in the BVI with my wife and three daughters for the Christmas Holiday..
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William R. Steinhaus posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Matt was a really good guy - and a valued friend -- i was always grateful he would go out of his way to say hello when we would cross each others path around town --- We enjoyed exchanging latest news or talking soccer. I am sorry to learn of his passing. His family has my heartfelt sympathy. William R. Steinhaus, Dutchess County Executive, 1992-2011, retired.
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Deborah DeMatteo purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Kathi Engel Skellan posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Donna, I am so shocked and saddened to hear this news of Matt. I will always remember him as such a kind and loving guy. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace be with you all. God Bless
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James Faraci purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Barbara Quinn purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Rocky Veronesi posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Our condolences to the Sefcik family. Matt was a great guy. Our prayers are with you all
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Marshall Breite posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I hope that as time goes by, the fond memories gently push aside the sadness.
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Alvina stelluti purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Allison Zamow donated to DUTCHESS COUNTY SPCA INC
Thursday, December 27, 2018
In memory of Mr. Sefcik.
Love,
ER, AZ, AS, JH, SW, HF, EL, BS, CD, MM, DT, CT, MN & RM
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Janet Cusanelli purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Sue n Tom Haight posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Donna,
Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. Matt was always friendly and fun to be with.
Sue n Tom Haight
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Jaime Lukas purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Jeff paquet posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
I am numb, trying to put words to paper about a dear dear friend that has passsed is difficult. Been friends with Matty for almost 30 years, and considered he and Donna as part of my close inner circle.... I will miss our conversation about the Yankees, Mets, and Jets as we would walk the beaches of jersey each summer........ Sleep easy my friend, your wife Donna and children shall never be far from you.... Love you Brothertill we meet again, jeff
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Deborah L DeMatteo purchased flowers
Thursday, December 27, 2018
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Jeff DeCarlo posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Donna and Family, So very sorry for your loss. I met Matt many years ago at his workplace, and we became friends. He was very thoughtful, and always shared updates on his pride and joy, his family. My Sincere Condolences, Jeff
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Rick Greener posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Shelley and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Matt was a wonderful guy and always a pleasure to be with. so sad
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Randi Young posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
I am so sorry for the loss of Mr. Sefcik. My thought and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
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Susan and Kevin Brooks posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
We are so sorry Donna and family , we have very fond memories of Matt a dedicated husband , father , former neighbor to us , our hearts are grieving for you all.
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Allison Zamow purchased flowers
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
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Athena posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Dear Donna, Matt, Katie, , Kara, Adam , and Lindy,
I want to express our deepest our deepest condolences On the loss of your husband and dad. He was a wonderful kind man and very loved. I don’t think they’re truly are words to comfort are you at this time. Just know that everyone this mourning with you in the loss of Matt. Please take comfort in knowing that you all have a special angel that will look out for each of you always.
Big hugs to all of you❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Leigh (Bartholomew) Williams posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Donna, I am so very sorry for your loss. Matty was a good friend throughout our years in school from kindergarten to HS graduation. After Tim and I were married in 1977, we had our daughter in 1980. Matty and Brian Kelly came and sold us our Life Insurance Policies. It was great to have him still in our lives. He will be missed but he will never truly be gone, memories are one of our greatest treasures. They get us through the not so good times throughout of lives. He will be remembered. I wish I could attend the services but I live in North Carolina with my son and wife. I will be saying Prays for Your family and You.
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Marianita Faviano posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Fond memories of Matt at soccer, in the neighborhood, school with the children and church events. Love to all.
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Jessica Coyne posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. May he Rest In Peace. My prayers go out to your family.
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Pat Roza posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Donna, I’m so very sorry for your loss❤️Cherish the memories❤️
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Barbara Walsh posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Donna,we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. We only with the many cherished memories you have of Matt are a comfort to you all now. He will forever be with you in your hearts. He will be watching over his beloved family with pride in his eye. We are so sorry.
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Mark Gerth posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
RIP Matt.
My condolences to the family.
I first met Matt in the boy scouts. He was always fun to be with.
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John Ebbecke posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
From the time we roomed in college over 40 years ago, through the years as a long distance great friend, we never had a cross word even if we disagreed. Only a laugh from our love of sarcasm. I truly will miss him, and hope his cherished Donna and loving children can move in time, from wounds of sorrow, into healing celebration of his memory during better times to come.
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Kayla Brantmeyer purchased flowers
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
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Kieran posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
There are truly not enough words that I can write that would reflect on the man that Matt was. My family and I knew Matt for over 20 years. We became friends when I became DOC at LaGrange Soccer. He was always able to see both sides of issues and folks always respected his insight and open mind. I always enjoyed conversations with Matt about his family, life and soccer. I got the opportunity to coach his daughter Lindy at Arlington and during that time Matt came to every match but never did he ever talk to me about her play. He was always a true professional. He loved his wife Donna and his family and was a very generous and loving man. He was a true gentleman who I had a great admiration and love for. I and my family will miss him. We are truly sorry for his loss and are thinking of Donna, Matthew, Kara and Lindy and the family during this most trying time.
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Tod Lashway posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Part of an inseparable neighborhood of friends growing up, there weren't many days we didn't have something we'd do together - baseball on the corner lot, running bases, tennis ball wars, All-Star Baseball complete with statistics, Bug Olympics, Ball Olympics (you had to be there for the last 2), baseball at all levels right into high school and soccer - we had a creative imagination usually related around sports. Matty was the epitome of a next door neighbor, sharing much of our youth together. Even though we drifted apart as I headed west to build my life, the memories endure. Our thoughts now are with Donna, the children and his new grandson; and with Tina and his Mom. We love you!
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Tod Lashway purchased flowers
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
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Penny Terr (Novak) posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
My deepest sympathies to Donna- who I worked with at Miron’s way back when she and Matty were engaged. What a sweet, loving couple. I am so sorry to hear of his passing.
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Christopher Wood posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Close friends from LaGrange Junior High School through Arlington High School Matty and I had kind of lost touch with each other in recent years, but did run into each other from time to time. I did miss that close relationship we had through the years along with the friendship I had with Donna as well! I feel a terrible sense of loss and feel horribly for the entire family. May GOD bless you all!
LOVE,
CHRIS
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Wednesday, December 26, 2018
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